The Cost of Following Christ
“Radical” as rooted, not extreme: wholehearted versus nominal faith; the searching call “Follow Me” and the imitation of Christ; self-denial as dethroning self (not self-hatred); taking up the cross with the joy set before us; counting the cost yet giving all gladly because He is worth it; losing life to find it; “in His steps” reshaping all of ordinary life; and above all, grace to follow — the whole thing grounded in grace, not our own strength.
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The Cost of Following Christ
A Chapala Theological Seminary reading — the call to wholehearted discipleship, and the grace that makes it possible
A CTS-authored survey, anchored in the classic public-domain works on discipleship (Thomas à Kempis, Charles M. Sheldon, and others), and in Scripture.
- Radical Christianity
- Discipleship
- The Cost of Following
- Anchored in classics
1.Rooted, Not Nominal
The word "radical" can be misleading, so let us begin by understanding it rightly. It comes from a Latin word meaning "root," and radical Christianity is not a matter of being extreme or strange; it is a matter of being rooted — of a faith that goes down to the root of the heart and takes hold of the whole life, rather than remaining on the surface. And this is set in contrast to a danger that has always threatened the church: the danger of a merely nominal Christianity, a faith that is Christian in name but not in reality, that has the form of godliness but not its power. It is possible to bear the name of Christ, to attend His church, and to hold correct opinions about Him, while the heart remains untouched and the life unchanged. Against all such half-heartedness, the New Testament calls us to a whole-hearted following of Christ. But before we say a word about the cost of that following, we must be clear about its foundation. The wholehearted discipleship to which we are called is never the way we earn God's favor or purchase our salvation. It is, from first to last, the grateful response of those who have already been saved by grace, through faith, as a free gift. We do not follow Christ in order to be loved by Him; we follow because we are loved, and cannot help but follow the One who first loved us and gave Himself for us.
2.Follow Me
At the heart of the Christian life stands the simplest and most searching of all Christ's commands: "Follow Me." To be a disciple, in the plain meaning of the word, is to be a follower and a learner — one who walks behind the Master, learns His ways, and is gradually made like Him. And this is far more than believing certain things about Jesus in our heads; it is the giving of ourselves to walk after Him with our whole lives. The old devotional writers understood this well. Thomas à Kempis opened his beloved book, The Imitation of Christ, by urging that our chief study and endeavor should be to meditate upon the life of Jesus Christ, and to conform our own lives to His. For it profits us little, he said, to speak learnedly about lofty matters if we lack the humility and love that please God; better to feel true sorrow for sin than to be able to define it. In other words, the goal of the Christian life is not merely to know about Christ, but to know Him, to love Him, and to become like Him by following where He leads. This is what it means to be His disciple: to hear His "Follow Me," and to rise and go after Him, day by day.
3.Deny Yourself
When the Lord Jesus spoke plainly of what following Him would involve, His first word was startling: "If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself." Self-denial stands at the very door of discipleship. But we must understand rightly what this means, for it is often misunderstood. To deny oneself does not mean to hate oneself, or to despise the person God has made, or to sink into a joyless, crushed misery. That is not the gospel, and it is not what Christ asks. To deny oneself means, rather, to dethrone self — to take our own will, our own comfort, our own pride and self-centeredness down from the throne of our lives, and to put Christ there instead. The great struggle of the Christian life is the struggle over who shall reign: our own self, or the Lord. And to deny ourselves is simply to say, in ten thousand daily decisions, "Not my will, but Yours." This is not a grim or gloomy thing. For when self comes down and Christ goes up, we do not lose our true selves; we find them. The tyranny of self-will is a hard and unhappy bondage; and to be set free from it, to live for Christ and others rather than for ourselves, is the beginning of real joy and real freedom.
4.Take Up Your Cross
The Lord's next words were these: "and take up his cross daily, and follow Me." To take up the cross is to accept, for Christ's sake, the cost that following Him may bring — the reproach, the misunderstanding, the hardship, and sometimes the suffering that come to those who belong to Him in a world that does not know Him. It is to be willing to bear whatever our discipleship may cost us, and to bear it gladly, out of love for the One we follow. But here again we must hold fast to the spirit of the gospel. The cross we take up is not a means of punishing ourselves, nor a burden we carry in gloom. We take it up looking to Jesus, who Himself, "for the joy that was set before Him, endured the cross." There was a joy beyond the suffering, and it upheld Him; and so it is for us. We bear the cost of following not with clenched teeth and heavy hearts, but with hope, because we know the One we follow, we know the love that bought us, and we know the glory that lies ahead. And we never bear it alone. The Christ who calls us to take up the cross carried His own cross first, all the way to Calvary for us; and He walks beside us in every burden we carry for His sake.
5.Count the Cost
Jesus never hid the cost of following Him, nor lured people with false promises of an easy road. On the contrary, He urged those who would follow Him to stop and count the cost first. He told two little parables to make the point. A man who wants to build a tower, He said, first sits down and calculates whether he has enough to finish it, lest he lay the foundation and be unable to complete it and become a laughingstock. And a king going to war first considers whether he can meet his enemy. So, said Jesus, "whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple." These are sobering words, and they are meant to be. Following Christ is not a casual thing to be drifted into thoughtlessly; it is a deliberate, wholehearted commitment of the entire life, and it may cost us dearly. Yet we must read these words in the light of everything else the Lord teaches. He asks us to forsake all — but only because He offers us Himself, who is worth infinitely more than all we could ever give up. To count the cost is not to be frightened away, but to face honestly what discipleship involves, and then to give ourselves to it gladly, with open eyes, knowing that whatever it costs, He is worth it.
6.Losing to Find
And this brings us to the great paradox at the center of the Christian life, one of the deepest things the Lord ever said. "Whoever desires to save his life," He taught, "will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it. For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and is himself destroyed or lost?" Here is the secret that turns the whole matter of cost on its head. The one who clutches at his own life, who lives for himself and refuses to give anything up for Christ, will in the end lose the very thing he is trying to keep. But the one who gives up his life for Christ's sake — who lets go of his own way and hands himself over to the Lord — discovers that he has not lost his life at all, but truly found it. The cost of discipleship, rightly seen, is not really loss; it is the greatest of all gains. For in giving up ourselves we receive Christ, and in Him we receive life itself, life that is real and full and everlasting. What could it profit us to keep everything else and lose our own souls? And what have we truly given up, if in losing our lives we gain Christ, and gain everything in Him?
7.In His Steps
What does this wholehearted following look like in the ordinary rounds of daily life? A famous story once pressed this question upon a whole generation of readers. In Charles Sheldon's In His Steps, a congregation covenants together to ask, before every decision, a single question: what would Jesus do? And as they honestly try to follow the answer, their lives, their work, and their choices are transformed. However we frame the question, the point is a true one, and the apostle Peter had made it long before: Christ suffered for us, "leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps." Discipleship is not a matter for the church building alone; it reaches into every corner of life — our work and our homes, our business and our friendships, how we treat the poor and how we spend our money and how we speak of others. To follow Christ is to let His example and His Spirit reshape all of it, so that in each place and each choice we seek to walk as He walked. And yet even here we must guard the spirit of grace. We do not follow His steps to earn His approval, as though ticking off a list of duties. We follow because we love Him, and because His own Spirit is at work within us, gently making us more like Him.
8.Grace to Follow
We have spoken much of cost and of self-denial, and rightly so, for the Lord Himself spoke much of them. But we must end where the whole matter must be grounded, or it will crush us: we must end in grace. If the call to wholehearted discipleship left us to follow in our own strength, it would be a hopeless burden, for we are weak, and we fail, and none of us could bear such a cost by our own power. But we are not left to ourselves. The same grace that saved us also carries us; the Christ who calls us to follow also gives us His own Spirit to enable us, for it is God who works in us both to will and to do His good pleasure. Our discipleship, then, is not the striving of the flesh, but the fruit of grace — His power at work in our weakness. And when we stumble and fail, as we surely will, the answer is not to despair or to punish ourselves, but simply to turn again to Christ, to receive His forgiveness afresh, and to rise and follow once more. He is patient with us; our growth is often slow; and He does not cast off those who fall, but lifts them up again. So let us follow Him wholeheartedly, counting the cost and giving Him all — not in the strength of grim resolve, but in the freedom and joy of those who are loved, and forgiven, and carried every step by grace.